Friday, April 8, 2011

Enough Is Enough

So many of us, if asked, would say, "Yes I am a good friend."  I don't think many people would consider themselves a bad friend.  In fact when I do come across someone who is just a bad friend they are usually totally oblivious to the fact.  And that my friends is what makes them a poor companion in the first place.  So I ask you readers.  At what point do you cut someone off.  When is it time to just stop being a "good friend?"  Quite personally I love people and I love building relationships.  I can be very forward and overbearing at times but that doesn't change the fact that I don't want to lose any friends.  I'm usually the first one to break down and apologize when something goes wrong.  So again I ask.  What is the cut off point? 

2 comments:

  1. When it becomes harder to be friends with them than not to. Friendships are supposed to make you happy, not make you work indefinitely. I'm not saying that friendships don't involve work sometimes, but they should be one of the easiest relationships you have in your life. You can't choose your family, you can't choose who you fall in love with, but you can choose your friends.

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  2. Kaitlin, Good point. I think all relationships take work, but at some point you have to redirect your energy. Thank you for commenting!

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